THE LAWS OF ultimate reality

THE LAWS OF ULTIMATE REALITY

Law of Mechanical Repair
After your hands become coated with grease, your nose will begin to itch and you'll have to pee.

Law of Gravity
Any tool, when dropped, will roll to the least accessible corner.

Law of Probability
The probability of being watched is directly proportional to the stupidity of your act.

Law of Random Numbers
If you dial a wrong number, you never get a busy signal and someone always answers.

Law of the Alibi
If you tell the boss you were late for work because you had a flat tire, the very next morning you will have a flat tire..

Law of Variation Law
If you change lines (or traffic lanes), the one you were in will always move faster than the one you are in now

Law of the Bath
When the body is fully immersed in water, the telephone rings.

Law of Close Encounters
The probability of meeting someone you know increases dramatically when you are with someone you don't want to be seen with.

Law of the Result
When you try to prove to someone that a machine won't work, it will.

Law of Biomechanics
The severity of the itch is inversely proportional to the reach.

Law of the Theater
At any event, the people whose seats are furthest from the aisle arrive last.

The Starbucks Law
As soon as you sit down to a cup of hot coffee, your boss will ask you to do something which will last until the coffee is cold.

Murphy's Law of Lockers
If there are only two people in a locker room, they will have adjacent lockers.

Law of Physical Surfaces
The chances of an open-faced jelly sandwich landing face down on a floor covering are directly correlated to the newness and cost of the carpet/rug.

Law of Logical Argument
Anything is possible if you don't know what you are talking about.

Brown's Law of Physical Appearance
If the shoe fits, it's ugly…

Oliver's Law of Public Speaking
A closed mouth gathers no feet…

Wilson's Law of Commercial Marketing Strategy
As soon as you find a product that you really like, they will stop making it…

Doctors' Law
If you don't feel well, make an appointment to go to the doctor, by the time you get there you'll feel better. Don't make an appointment and you'll stay sick…

A Sense of closure

A Sense of Closure
Cutting Cords

In every relationship, people are constantly exchanging energy that can become a chord connecting two people. This energetic cord forms just below the breastbone and can remain long after a relationship has ended. This unbroken cord may leave an open channel between you and another person, through which emotions and energy can continue to flow. If you are unaware that the chord exists, it is easy to feel the other person’s emotions and mistakenly think that they are yours. Besides the fact that this can limit the amount of closure you can experience in a relationship, letting this cord remain intact can leave you with a continued sense of sadness while creating feelings of lethargy as your own energy is sapped from you. Cutting the cord can help you separate yourself from old baggage, unnecessary attachments, and release you from connections that are no longer serving you.

Finding and cutting unwanted cords is a simple, gentle process that is best done alone and when you are relaxed. It is important that you are strong in your intention to release the chord between you and someone else. To begin, breathe deeply and perform a simple centering meditation. When you are ready, visualize or sense the chords that are connecting you to other people. Run your fingers through the cords to separate them until you find the cord you wish to sever. There is no need to worry, because the chord you need to sever will feel just right. When you have found it, determine where the cut should be made and then visualize the cord being cleanly cut. If you need assistance, Archangel Michael can be called upon to help you with his sword. Afterwards, if you feel that cutting the chord has left spaces in your energy field, then visualize those spaces being filled with healing sunlight.

There may be times where cutting a cord can help free a relative or loved one to reach new stages of growth. You’re not severing a relationship, but you are severing the chords that are no longer serving you both. At other times, a cord may simply refuse to be cut because it is still serving a higher purpose. It is also important to remember that cutting a cord with someone is not a replacement for doing your emotional work with people. It can, however, be an enactment of that work upon its completion. In any case, cutting a relationship cord should always be viewed as a positive and nurturing act. By cutting the cords that no longer need to be there, you are setting yourself and others free from the ties that bind.

LETTING GO OF SORROW

Letting Go of Sorrow
If I allow bitterness and resentment to fester inside, it will make my relationships guarded and unsatisfying. The more I close down to others, the more I become a stranger to myself. By letting go of sorrow and negativity, I can keep my nature open and loving. Remaining open to life, with its constant adventures and opportunities to grow, is the only way to reach my full potential.

BE ATTITUDES

*Be understanding to your perceived enemies.

*Be loyal to your friends.

*Be strong enough to face the world each day.

*Be weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.

*Be generous to those who need your help.

*Be frugal with that you need yourself.

*Be wise enough to know that you do not know everything.

*Be foolish enough to believe in miracles.

*Be willing to share your joys.

*Be willing to share the sorrows of others.

*Be a leader when you see a path others have missed.

*Be a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.

*Be first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.

*Be last to criticize a colleague who fails.

*Be sure where your next step will fall, so that you will not tumble.

*Be sure of your final destination, in case you are going the wrong way.

*Be loving to those who love you..

*Be loving to those who do not love you; they may change.

*Above all, Be yourself.

QUOTES OF THE DAY

Quotes of the Day
"The two most powerful warriors are patience and time."
-- Leo Tolstoy, Author


"Failures are expected by losers, ignored by winners."
-- Joe Gibbs, Football Coach


"Confidence is the most important single factor in this game, and no
matter how great your talent, there is only one way to obtain it-
work."
-- Jack Nicklaus, golfer


"You must be the change you wish to see in the world."
-- Mahatma Gandhi..


"Concentrate all your thoughts on the task at hand. The sun's rays do
not burn until brought to a focus."
-- Alexander Graham Bell, Inventor

Happiness is your property

Happiness Is Your Property
No matter what adverse situations come in front of you, no matter how many obstacles come in front of you, your happiness should not disappear. An obstacle that comes will also go away. That obstacle comes and goes away but what belongs to you should not go. So, happiness is your property. Whenever an obstacle comes, just think that it has come to go away. When a guest comes to your home, it isn't that he has come as a guest and will go away having taken everything from your home. So an obstacle has come and it will go away but it should not take away your happiness. Happiness should always remain with you.

MESSAGE FOR THE DAY

Message for the Day

The one who is free from complaints is the one who becomes complete.

Projection:
When things go wrong it is the usual reaction to complain, against
situations or others, and to find fault with them. When we are busy
complaining we will not be able to make any effort to make any
improvement in ourselves.

Solution:
Whenever we find ourselves complaining we need to see what we can
do to bring about a change instead of just complaining. There would
surely be something that we can do. Slowly as we begin to implement
each thing that we learn, we find ourselves moving forward towards
our own perfection.

ALL IS MIND

All is mind

"I want to know the thoughts of God;
the rest are details."

-- Albert Einstein

Everything -- absolutely everything -- that happens in our lives has a spiritual cause. Events on all other levels -- mental, emotional and physical -- are only effects.

When we are struggling with any challenge, whether it be ill health, a lack of money, a lost job, poor relationships, an accident, whatever -- we need to look for the spiritual learning. We can ask ourselves, "What quality does my soul want me to live more fully?"

"If you start to think the problem is ‘out there,’ stop yourself. That thought is the problem."

-- Stephen Covey

BEAUTIFUL INSPIRATIONAL MESSAGE

When You Understand (Part 1)

When you understand that you are not your body and that Who You Are never can, and never will, die, AND . . . when you understand that you will never be condemned by a judgmental, angry, and vindictive God . . . THEN will your lifelong worries about your happy survival be over. The end of these worries will transform you completely, causing you to interact with the world in an entirely new way. You will become, quite literally, a New Human. You will live, quite naturally, a New Spirituality. And you will create, quite spontaneously, a New Society.

The New Revelations Neale Donald Walsch Page 329

BEAUTIFUL MANNERS

Beautiful Manners

A person of wisdom and spirituality has very beautiful manners that have grown from genuine respect and love for the whole of humanity. Manners in this sense have nothing to do with culture or education: it is simply a question of humility. When we are at the receiving end of such manners, we feel that some deeper part of us has been honoured. In fact, none of us deserves anything less.

Inspirational Message

Release the Joy in Another's Heart (Part 2)

With the sharing of a feeling, the telling of a truth, the ending of anger, the healing of judgment. With the willingness to listen, and the willingness to speak. With the decision to forgive, and the choice to release. With the commitment to give, and the grace to receive. I tell you there are a thousand ways to release the joy in the heart of another. Nay, a thousand times a thousand. And in the moment you decide to do so, you will know how.

Friendship With God Neale Donald Walsch

A PEACEFUL BEING

You fill your life with peace when you discover you only have to be yourself, to be what you have always been - a peaceful being.

GREAT THOUGHTS

GREAT THOUGHTS

If you cant be a pencil to write anyone's happiness,then try at least to be a nice rubber to erase everyone's sorrows.Light candles instead of cursing darkness.

MAKING FAITH WORK

Ability is what you're capable of doing.

God sends us miracles everyday.We just have to train our eyes to be aware of them!!

Motivation determines what you do.

Attitude determines how well you do it.

Live your beliefs and you can turn the world around

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Knowledge is useless unless and until we put it to good use ..

Just like faith---

A priest and a rabbi go to watch a boxing match ..

Before the fight begins, one of the boxers makes a sign of

the cross .. The Rabbi asks the priest,

"What does that mean?"

"Not a damn thing if He's not willing to fight or cannot fight"

answers the Priest .....

See, Faith has to made whole by working on it .. by working with it

Otherwise it becomes like a disembodied spirit ...

just wandering around ....

RESPECT

Respect
When I learn to respect myself, other people will respect me. How can I develop respect for myself? By keeping my mind positive and encouraging myself to grow and change for the better. Demanding respect because of my position or background is simply arrogance. On the other hand, listening with humility and valuing other people's advise naturally earns me respect. I get back exactly what I give out.

CALM

Calm
In tune with my inner rhythm, I draw wisdom from the past, allowing the future to shape itself around me. My mind is a sanctuary where shafts of golden sunlight laze as though resting in the aisles of some great cathedral. Everything is as it should be. I remain simple in the midst of complexity, sure at times of unease, and clear in the company of others.

YOUR THOUGHTS

Your Thoughts

Since you alone are responsible for your thoughts,
only you can change them.

You will want to change them
when you realize that each thought creates
according to its own nature.

Remember that the law works at all times
and that you are always demonstrating
according to the kind of thoughts you habitually entertain.

Therefore, start now to think only those thoughts
that will bring you health and happiness.

Paramahansa Yogananda

PATIENCE

Patience
Patience is a virtue and a power too. Patience tells us that the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step and that we get over there one step at a time. Patience teaches us not to rush. Knowing that there is a reason and a season for everything it enables us to smile at the challenges, realizing that there is an answer to every problem. And, even though we cannot see it, yet there is awareness that within every crisis lies an opportunity.

SEEING THINGS TRULY

Seeing things truly
We tend to see things not as they are but as we are. Becoming quiet and simple inside is a first step to seeing things truly.

SUSAN JEFFER'S

YOU TRULY CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE
IN THE WORLD
by Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.

As I look around, I notice that there are too few of us who have the understanding at the deepest level of our being that our lives really make a difference...that our actions really do contribute to the pool of energy that defines this world. If this describes how you feel about yourself, let me give you a wonderful exercise that I describe in Embracing Uncertainty to change this erroneous self-perception. I call it "The Act-As-If Exercise"...and it's a simple yet profoundly effective way to improve the way you feel about yourself. It goes like this:

---First, ask yourself a very important, and ultimately empowering, question...

"If I truly make a positive difference in this world, what would I be doing?"

You ask yourself this question in relation to all parts of your life that include your family, your friends, your job, your community, the world.

---Then, list all the actions you would take if you truly did believe that you made a positive difference. Let all your answers come from the best of who you are...your Higher Self...the part of you that is loving, giving, caring and all good things.

Let's use your job as an example. You ask yourself, "If I truly make a difference at my job, what would I be doing?" Your "act-as-if" list of answers might look like this...

1. If I truly make a difference, I would arrive on time.
   
2. If I truly make a difference, I would be a self-starter, advancing the goals of my employer.
   
3. If I truly make a difference, I would be respectful of my co- workers and help them whenever possible.
   
4. If I truly make a difference, I would stop complaining about things going on at my work. (That may be the hardest task of all!)

Your challenge is to create a wonderful environment for yourself and everyone around you. It doesn't matter at what level of the company you function - from the lowest on the totem pole to the highest. Your sense of caring and commitment is important no matter where you find yourself.

Now that you have your job handled, go on to make the same kind of "act-as-if" list for all the other areas of your life.

---Once you have created one or more of your lists, it is then time to, step-by-step, take action and "become" the person you have described on your lists. In the case of your job, you arrive on time, you become a self-starter, you advance the goals of your employer, you are loving toward your co-workers, and you stop complaining! In this way, you are truly "acting-as-if" you are making a difference!

---Now for the great news: There comes that great day when you don't have to "act-as-if" any longer. You truly KNOW that your life makes a difference. In Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway® I introduce you to a woman who transformed her experience at her job by using this wonderful "act-as-if" exercise. As she truly became involved in making a difference, the job she hated became a job that gave her joy. And ultimately she realized just how much of a difference she could make.

As we consciously and patiently focus on this confidence-giving game of "act-as-if" in all areas of our lives, we slowly begin to feel a sense of worth and purpose. We ultimately live into the awesomely wonderful understanding of just how large a difference we can truly make. We learn that whether in the enclosed space of our home or out in the vastness of the world, every action we take helps determine whether this is a world filled with negativity or a world filled with peace and love. Awesome, indeed!

You can see that for many of us, "acting-as-if" comes before "feeling-as-if". You can also see that the process of "acting-as-if" is simple, but it requires us to pay attention and constantly ask ourselves the important question, "If I truly make a difference, what would I be doing?" We do this until we truly understand that WE TRULY DO MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Every word that we speak, every action we take affects the world around us.

Along the way, we may notice that the lingering pain of past and present hurts can make positive actions difficult. Not to worry...as we begin radiating our love into this world, so many of the hurts of the past begin to fall away and are replaced with the joy that comes from a life of caring and involvement. Again, it is a step-by-step process and little-by-little our tears of unhappiness are replaced by tears of joy. That's certainly the way it was for me.

To know that we really make a difference...to know that we really count...is the most powerful and vital piece of information we can have. It introduces a whole new dimension to our being - that of responsibility. Understand that a sense of responsibility that comes from a realization of our inner power is not a burden. It enables us to leave behind the frightened ego and jump to the highest part of who we are. It allows us to create acts of love that make us feel alive and joyful...even blissful. At such times, we know we have found our true Home...that magical place within where we all yearn to dwell. We have only to begin the Journey and, with each step forward, we find ourselves a little bit closer to Home.

© 2008 Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.

Offer Up

Offer Up
Free yourself from forcing, expecting or wanting someone to receive what you think they should take - it could be your idea, opinion, or an opportunity you think they should accept - you can't make anyone take anything - your own experience probably confirms this. Offer humbly. Offer gently. Offer as if you are a master, and then let go, and retire like a shy child. When you can dance the dance between being master and child, you'll be surprised how much more others will accept what you have to say, and how much more they appreciate your offerings